are you more the pursuer or the pursued?
is it important to you that the people in your life know you care about them? do you show it or say it? both? neither?
do you have faith?
what was the last spontaneous thing you did?
do you feel valued in your work/profession?
would you feel comfortable being nude at an optional clothing beach?
has anyone ever sent you a drink at a bar?
do your parents tell you they love you?
how would you feel if your boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife said they wanted to explore having an open relationship?
what do you want more of in your life?
what do you want less of?
do you believe in love at first sight?
what job, other than your own, would you like?
if you put down a bet on a rouleette wheel, what number what you bet on?
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7 comments:
1. It's been so long since I've been either. :(
2. Yes, both.
3. Yes, but I wish it was more heartfelt than intellectual.
4. I can't remember. Spontaniety is fine as long as I plan for it. ;)
5. Yes.
6. Hell no!
7. I don't think so.
8. All the time.
9. I'd feel like I made a huge mistake and I didn't know her at all. That's a deal-breaker for me.
10. I want more confidence, peace, health and motivation. I want less stress and worry about things I can't control.
11. Yes.
12. I've always said being a writer but I don't write much anymore, so I don't know. How about independently wealthy jet-setter? :)
13. 22.
1. it's a mutual dance
2. yes. both.
3. yes
4. 45 seconds and i can't come up with anything. hmmm.
5. yes, usually
6. no
7. no
8. no
9. i would feel horrible & i would leave
10.landscaping / distance from gf
11. no
12. book or craft store owner/operator
13. 3
I'll pursue if I have to but I'm used to being pursued
Yes, I'll do whatever is necessary to let someone know I care about them. In my own way and it's different for everyone
I have tons of faith
Made an important phone call
Totally valued but not fully appreciated all the time at work
I've been topless at a nude beach-no problem, but totally nude feels odd
Yes (thankfully)I'll always accept a drink
All the time, and my parents always have (thankfully)
I would be shocked but we'd discuss and go from there
Warm weather, less anger
Totally believe. It happened to my parents
A job that doesn't exist- I want to tell people when to shut up
Whatever # came to me at the time of the spin
1. I used to be the pursuer but now I wait to be pursued. It's like that Tracy Chapman song "too old to be "But I’m too old to go chasing you around wasting my precious energy"
2. Yes
3. Yes - always
4. Went to Florida
5. Most of the time
6. No
7. Yes
8. What parents?
9. I would feel hurt and then jeolous
10. Money
11. Work
12. Yes
13. Beach patrol
14. 7
Good questions!
Oh, great questions!
are you more the pursuer or the pursued?
-- I don't even know how to answer this, I've been married forever! :)
is it important to you that the people in your life know you care about them? do you show it or say it? both? neither?
-- YES! Very important. I say it and show it.
do you have faith?
-- Yes, faith in myself, my wife, us, our daughter, our friends, and faith in my religious beliefs.
what was the last spontaneous thing you did?
-- Yesterday we skipped church and went to Mystic.
do you feel valued in your work/profession?
-- Yes
would you feel comfortable being nude at an optional clothing beach?
-- Oh hell no!
has anyone ever sent you a drink at a bar?
--I've never been to a bar by myself. I've only been a handful of times, and always with my wife, or prior to her my ex.
do your parents tell you they love you?
-- When they were alive, yes. We NEVER said goodbye in person or on the phone without saying, "I love you."
how would you feel if your boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife said they wanted to explore having an open relationship?
-- That is not an acceptable option in our life
what do you want more of in your life?
-- Time to do some kind of volunteer work that makes a difference in the lives of others
what do you want less of?
-- Worry about illness and growing old
do you believe in love at first sight?
-- I believe in strong attraction and lust at first sight, but I think love has to grow, if it is mature love
what job, other than your own, would you like?
-- Child Life Specialist at a hospital
if you put down a bet on a rouleette wheel, what number what you bet on?
-- Hmmm, either 6 or 7
my answers
-more of the pursuer
-yes, i think i show it more than say it
-yes, i have faith
-wore skirt to work today
-off and on, i feel valued
-yes, would like to go to a nude beach
- yes, a long time ago
-not applicable
-i would be open to discussing, i think
-want more soulful connections
-want less wasted time
-yes, i believe in love at first sight
-a detective
-34, red, baby!
thanks for all your answers. i thoroughly enjoyed reading them!!
are you more the pursuer or the pursued?
-I've been in a relationship so long I don't know. I guess since I'm pretty shy I'm going to say pursued.
is it important to you that the people in your life know you care about them? do you show it or say it? both? neither?
-yes. I'm more of an action rather than words type of a person.
do you have faith?
-no
what was the last spontaneous thing you did?
-uh...a few weeks ago I surprised BP with a picnic at this quiet park where we used to go meet up to eat on our lunch hour.
do you feel valued in your work/profession?
-no
would you feel comfortable being nude at an optional clothing beach?
-eh, I don't know. If everyone on the beach was nude, maybe.
has anyone ever sent you a drink at a bar?
-yes
do your parents tell you they love you?
-my mom does
how would you feel if your boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife said they wanted to explore having an open relationship?
-I don't know. On some levels I think that if that is what she needed at that point in her life then she needs to do what makes her happy as long as it wasn't taking away from our relationship. I don't expect to be able to be everything she needs at every phase of her life. As long as it doesn't take away from us, then what can I say. It's her life. But I know I couldn't really handle knowing. I'd much rather she just cheated and never told me.
what do you want more of in your life?
-a sense of purpose
what do you want less of?
-worry and guilt
do you believe in love at first sight?
-well sort of. I believe you know right away when you've met someone you could spend your life with.
what job, other than your own, would you like?
-architect
if you put down a bet on a rouleette wheel, what number what you bet on?
-I'd never bet one number, the odds are too high.
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